What do you do when your ex is trying to destroy your relationship with your children post-separation? What if your ex is making false claims that you are alienating the kids from them in a custody battle? You'll find a lot of information and opinions on the internet, but, unfortunately, not much of it is helpful, and, worse, a lot of it can actually harm your legal case. Been There Got Out: When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You fills a crucial need by shedding light on a controversial and misunderstood subject - not as an academic study of parental alienation, but rather a guide, jam-packed with steps you can put into immediate action, to what you can do about it when it's happening to you and your children, or you're being falsely accused yourself. Been There Got Out: When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You fills a crucial need by shedding light on a controversial and misunderstood subject - not as an academic study of parental alienation, but rather a guide, jam-packed with steps you can put into immediate action, to what you can do about it when it's happening to you and your children, or you're being falsely accused yourself.